Thursday, December 11, 2014

Here it is: My 11 page paper on Christmas for class!

          Christmas. Andy Williams crooned that it is “the most wonderful time of the year” on his 1964 Christmas album (Pola and Wyle, 1963, Side A, Band 4). From nativity scenes to the Santa Claus at the mall, Americans will be celebrating Christmas. Everywhere you go, you see Christmas lights and decorations letting us know what time of the year it is. Rip Van Winkle could awake from his fairy-tale sleep, and even he would know that Christmas was upon him! Ronnie Milsap, Ray Charles, and Stevie Wonder would all be able to “see” from the sounds around them that the season is here again. From the youngest to the oldest, practically everyone knows the Reason for the season. Christmas is perhaps the most important day on the Christian calendar seeing that most of its traditions have Christian connotations, and those traditions bring honor to the very One for whom the holiday is named after.

            Christmas is a decidedly Christian holiday without a doubt. It is the day that the name of Christ is exalted in song and literature. It is a day that people who have not been to church in a while may decide to attend with friends or family. Unlike Easter which is a “one and done” day, the Christmas season is built up from November until its conclusion in early January, giving perhaps close to a month and a half for the gospel message to be presented. As a Christian who believes the gospel message was meant to be presented to everyone, I exuberantly welcome the Christmas season.

            According to Frank Newport (2008) when referencing a recent Gallup poll, 93% of Americans indicated they would be celebrating the holiday of Christmas (In the U.S., Christmas Not Just for Christians, para. 1). According to a U.S. News article (2008), the population of America at that time was 305,529,237 which would mean approximately 284 million Americans celebrated Christmas that year alone (U.S. Population, 2009: 305 Million and Counting, para. 1). Given these numbers, I believe it would suffice to say that Christmas is a huge deal for the majority of Americans. However, what if the masses are in the wrong? What if instead of celebrating the birth of a Savior, we are instead keeping customs that honor pagan gods? We know how that God feels about the worship of other deities as the very first part of The Ten Commandments tells us “[y]ou are to have no other gods besides me” (Exodus 20:3, International Standard Version). When asked what the greatest commandment was by a lawyer, Jesus replied to him by saying “…[l]ove the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment” (Matthew 22:37-38, New International Version). If in fact this day known to the world over as a celebration of Christ’s birthday is indeed an honorary day set aside for pagan divinities, it would do us well to find out. We see from these verses above that God alone is to be honored, so we need to find out if the naysayers have a proverbial leg to stand on.

            While they are certainly a decided minority, there are groups who identify themselves as Christian that would tell us Christmas is a pagan holiday that no Christian should be celebrating. Herbert W. Armstrong, founder of the Worldwide Church of God, said "Ancient Rome's pagan holidays have been chained upon a heedless and deceived world. These include certain annual holidays---Christmas, New Year's, Easter, as well as many more, every one [sic] a pagan day… ” (1). The Jehovah’s Witness organization (n.d.) purports to show that Christmas is littered through and through with pagan traditions and customs (Why don’t Jehovah’s Witnesses celebrate Christmas? section, para. 1). Scott Ashley (n.d.) of the United Church of God, opines the same sentiment by saying that “[n]one of these things have anything to do with Him, but they have a lot to do with ancient pagan festivals” (The Christmas Holiday is Largely a Recycled Pagan Celebration section, para. 1). Of the myriad of reasons that a small minority would give not to celebrate Christmas, this is perhaps their strongest argument, but it is an argument that simply will not hold water upon further examination. While one might look circumspectly enough to find traces of paganism in some of our Christmas traditions, the good that is accomplished in the Christmas season far outweighs any bad that might have been associated with it in the past. Any remaining stench of pagan traditions have also been long since been absorbed with the passage of time.

            Some of my earliest memories are Christmas get-togethers with family, family that is now in large part gone on. I feel in many ways that the couplet from the Happy Goodmans song, “It Looks Like Everybody’s Going Home,” describes me when it is said, “I look around and I feel like a stranger, for the old familiar faces seem so few” (Wilburn, 1973, Side B, Band 6). If my family had subscribed to a viewpoint that Christmas was a wholesale celebration of paganism, I might not have had so much family to have celebrated my life with. It was not about seeing Christmas decorations, nor talking about Santa Claus, but seeing family that you had not gotten to see in a long time. My dad is from a large family, family that eventually spread out all the way from Illinois to Memphis. My mother’s family has spread all the way from here to Wisconsin and Virginia. Other families obviously have spread out even further than that due to careers or other personal choices. That makes for a high improbability of seeing one another too much during the year. Does not the Bible talk about family being of the utmost importance? What can be so wrong about a time that everyone can get together and fellowship? Families are not paying homage to some pagan deity when they choose to spend time with one another on the special day known as Christmas. 

            In our rushed society, how many people make time for church anymore? Although I am one of the types that “if the door is open I will be there,” I realize that many are not. I am certainly not about to criticize someone for not attending; that is between God and them. It could be that their work schedule is so crazy that they are rarely off when the church doors are open; perhaps they are so frazzled after putting in a 40, 50 or 60 hour work week that they need time to recuperate. Christmas might perchance be the only time they can darken the church doors. Since it is likely a given that they will hear the message of how Christ came to die in our stead, giving us eternal life if we choose it, what better time for that person to come to church? Even if the situation is such that the person could come to church during the year, but chose not to, what better time to choose to do so? Amber Hildebrandt (2013) of CBC News reports that nearly one third of our Canadian neighbors planned on attending church for Christmas, a figure I would believe would probably be mirrored here (Christmas Crowds Soar but Churches Pass Up Opportunities, para. 1). As a Christian, it is about winning souls for the Kingdom of God, not splitting hairs about what day they came! Mary Fairchild (n.d)., Christianity expert for about.com, says “[m]oreover, Christian churches see Christmas as an occasion to spread the good news of the gospel at a time when many unbelievers pause to consider Christ” (Mass of Christ section, para. 2). It is beyond me exactly why any sane Christian, God-fearing person could or even would remotely argue that we are somehow honoring pagan traditions when we see people in church hearing the gospel message.

            From Jim Nabors singing “Go Tell It on the Mountain” (Nabors and Copeland, 1967, Side A, Band 1) to Elvis Presley crooning sacred Christmas numbers such as “Silent Night” (Gruber and Moore, 1957, Side B, Band 2) on his long in print Christmas album, the message of Christ is conveyed in song upon song every Christmas season. Just like the person who hears the gospel message only once or twice a year, they are hearing the name of Christ exalted in the music, music that is played in stores, on television, and on the radio. The central message of the Gospel is manifest in many Christmas songs, leading me to beg the question to the Christmas naysayers, what is so wrong about a time of the year that the story of Christ is brought out for public viewing in song? Some people feel we are in the time spoken of by the Old Testament prophet Amos. “The time is surely coming,” says the Sovereign Lord, “when I will send a famine on the land—not a famine of bread or water but of hearing the words of the Lord” (Amos 8:11, New Living Translation). If we are indeed in those days of famine, we certainly do NOT need to snuff out the candle of God’s message to mankind that is prevalent in Christmas music this time of the year.

            Christmas is a relaxing day of the year if you allow it to be. Many people will choose to stay home, watching parades, football, and maybe even a Christmas movie. Others will choose family time to go look at Christmas lights or simply just spend time with one another. No matter the chosen mode of relaxation, Christmas can be a peaceful day of the year if you allow it to be. We all need time to recharge our batteries, and this makes for a picture-perfect time to do so. In Genesis 2:2-3, the Bible tells us “[b]y the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done” (New International Version). In Mark 6:31, it reads “[a]nd he said to them, ‘Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.’ For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat” (English Standard Version). If God afforded a rest after working, why should He begrudge us a day that we can use to recharge ourselves even if it happens to be on a day with supposed pagan undertones?

            Christmas is just a fun time of the year! There are Scrooge-types out there who simply will not entertain the idea of “fun,” but the Bible tells us that there are times for celebration and merry-making. Caroling down the street with neighbors; singing along with the family while someone strums the guitar or putting decorations on the tree and hanging lights. Stevie Wonder told us that “everyone is a kid at Christmas time” in one of his popular songs (Miller and Miller, 2003, Track 14). Folk/Country singer John Denver teamed up with the Muppets and gave us their rendition of “Little Saint Nick” (Wilson and Love, 1979, Program 3, Song 1). There are so many Christmas activities that give you the “warm fuzzies” that you merely do not get any other time of the year. While the Bible is certainly full of references to judgment and damnation, it also talks about having joy and being happy. Christmas certainly represents a time of merry-making and joyfulness! Solomon, considered the wisest man to have ever lived, told his readers “…I commended enjoyment because there is nothing better for man under the sun than to eat, drink, and enjoy himself…” (Ecclesiastes 8:15, Holman Christian Standard Bible).

            Another nail in the coffin for the Christmas argument comes from the Bible itself. We find the Apostle Paul telling the believers at Colosse, “[s]o don’t let anyone criticize you for what you eat or drink, or for not celebrating Jewish holidays and feast or new moon ceremonies or Sabbaths” (Colossians 2:16, Living New Testament). One of Herbert W. Armstrong’s main arguments was that God never cancelled the adherence to the Jewish feasts, and he says we should be celebrating those instead of so-called “pagan” holidays (1). We can put that argument to bed with this passage. We can provide further collateral damage to this argument with the words of James, considered by many to be the very brother of Jesus. “For the one who obeys the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it” (James 2:10, New English Translation). If one can poke holes in the arguments of Armstrong on keeping the Jewish Law seeing how he was one of the chief proponents of abandoning Christmas, the boat of not celebrating Christmas begins to fill with water and sink as well.

            The final nail in the coffin for those who argue that Christmas is pagan influenced and we should veer away from it is the very hypocrisy of those who argue for the removal of pagan influences. The very days our week are named after or for pagan deities. J. Hampton Keathley, III (2004), points out that, for instance, “Thursday originally stood for the Germanic god of the sky or of thunder. Tuesday stood for Tiw, the god of war. And Wednesday is derived from Woden, the chief god in Germanic mythology. Sunday and Monday were related somehow to the worship of the sun and the moon. Saturday is from Saturnus, or Saturn, and Friday comes from Fria, the goddess of love” (Argument Number 4: Christmas Traditions are from Paganism section, para. 13). I also remember from my studies in school that the planets are generally named after pagan deities, but I do not see a serious movement at hand to rename the planets after the twelve disciples or any of the many Old Testament heroes of faith! I love the way that Mr. Keathley (2004) sums up his argument, a summation that puts the final hammer blow on the final nail in the coffin before it is lowered six feet under by the “Christmas is pagan” undertaker. “When Friday roles around we don't think about Fria, the goddess of love. On Saturday we don't think about it as Saturn's day, but as our day off! The same applies to the traditions of Christmas” (Argument Number 4: Christmas Traditions are from Paganism section, para. 13).

            Some would no doubt argue the veracity of the Christmas argument I made above by saying that even though we may have Christian liberty to not observe the Jewish feasts and celebrations, we are not given carte blanche to celebrate Christmas. Again, I think that this argument can be retired and put out to pasture by Scripture. Relying again on that stalwart champion of Christian liberty, Paul, we can turn to First Corinthians 8:4-6 and see what he had to say in regards to eating food that had been sacrificed to idols. “With regard then to eating food sacrificed to idols, we know that ‘an idol in this world is nothing,’ and that ‘there is no God but one.’ If after all there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as there are many gods and many lords), yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we live, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we live” (New English Translation). Yes, I know this is talking about food, but if God can bless and “make clean” food offered to an idol, is He not also capable of cleansing what some think a pagan celebration? In another of his epistles, Paul told the Roman Christians that “[o]ne person esteems one day above another; another esteems every day alike. Let each be fully convinced in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it to the Lord; and he who does not observe the day, to the Lord he does not observe it. He who eats, eats to the Lord, for he gives God thanks; and he who does not eat, to the Lord he does not eat, and gives God thanks” (Romans 14:5-6, New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update). I am also brought to mind of what God told Peter when He told him in Acts 11:9b that “[w]hat God has cleansed, do not call common” (Jubilee Bible 2000). An unknown 4th century bishop (n.d.) summarized the whole thing when he said "We hold this day holy, not like the pagans because of the birth of the sun, but because of him who made it" (qtd. in Christmas section, para. 4). 

            I would also like to point out a few things from my personal observance about the common things we see every Christmas season and how those things fit in well with the Christian belief. We see Christmas trees from the poor-house to the White House. What was Christ crucified on? A cross made from a tree! What type of tree is the Christmas tree? It’s an evergreen tree; this symbolizes the eternal life that we have if we accept Christ as our Savior. We top off the tree usually with an angel or a star. It was the angels that announced the birth of Christ and a star that the Maggi followed to see Christ. We put lights on the Christmas tree and on our houses; Jesus was the Light of the world, and He was sent to shine bright for the world to see! The ornaments symbolize the beauty of Heaven, a beauty described in the book of Revelation. We adorn our houses with fake snow, either the fake spray on kind or the quilted kind made from cotton. What color is snow? It’s white, a color that the Bible mentions when it says that our robes will be white as snow. The old faithful standby King James Translation of 1789 explains that “…though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be [white] as wool” (Isaiah 1:18, King James Version). Like Hank Williams and the song about making a Bible from a deck of cards (Myrick, 2010, Track 40), Christmas is what we make it. God most certainly looks at the intent of our hearts. God is not sitting high and mighty upon His throne waiting to thrust lightning bolts at us, nor is He turning up the furnace of Hell seven times hotter because we choose to celebrate Christmas.

            Another point I would like to bring out is that I do believe in a literal Satan who is in opposition with a literal God. I have oft heard that for everything God has to offer, Satan offers a counterfeit. Without veering too far afield here, it would behoove me to point out that this former angel, once known as Lucifer, is known for his ability to transform “himself into an angel of light” (2nd Corinthians 11:13-15, New King James Version). Throughout history, Satan and his minions have introduced imitations of what God has to offer in an effort to steer people away from knowing the real truth. John Hoole (2010) points out “Satan just cannot get rid of God’s tree – so what has he done instead?  Answer – Satan has planted MORE TREES – many more.  His goal?  To HIDE God’s tree in a veritable forest of counterfeit trees.  These trees look like – smell like – feel like – the real tree of God.  But they are imposters.  They are trees of death – not trees of life” (IN WHAT WAYS DOES THE DEVIL COUNTERFEIT THE THINGS OF GOD TODAY? section, para. 3). Is it really that far stretch of an imagination to think that God’s arch enemy would counterfeit the day Christ’s birth is celebrated by having other gods honored on that day? Lady Rose (2011), a decidedly non-Christian writer, gives further credence to my thoughts by giving the names of 13 deities who were celebrated on December 25, one of which was Sol Invictus, also known as “The Unconquered Sun” (13 Gods Associated With December 25, para. 2). Would it not stand to reason that the master counterfeiter would copy the day that Christ, “The Unconquered Son,” was born upon? Michael F. Bird (2011) sums it up in the best way possible. “Christmas means that the unconquerable god of the Romans just got conquered. A pagan Roman holiday just got stuffed with more Christianity than a December Turkey stuffed with spiced bread crumbs” (December 25 means the Triumph of Christianity over Paganism, para. 3).

            If and when Scrooge decides to give me a “bah humbug,” I’m going to give him a big “Merry Christmas!” Christmas is something special, a day unlike others that you won’t find any other time of the year. God is not sitting on His throne in Heaven waiting to strike me down for putting up a Christmas tree, nor is He turning up the furnace in Hell extra hot because I have my fireplace hearth and mantle festooned with my numerous Christmas houses and figurines. The arguments of those who wish to forbid the celebration of Christmas based upon some sort of past association with pagan rites and deities have been refuted thoroughly backed by arguments from people knowledgeable in the Christian faith and from Scripture itself. I feel that if one had to base an argument straight from “sola scriptura” that it would be entirely possible still to refute the claims given. Christmas is a time for families to be together, a time for the name of Christ to be exalted in churches and Christmas hymns, and a time for people to have fun and relax. Perhaps I am like country singer Bill Anderson and was born with too much of the spirit of Christmas in me (Anderson, 1969, Side A, Track 6), but I must agree again with how Andy Williams put it-it’s the most wonderful time of the year (Pola and Wyle, 1963, Side A, Band 4)! The words of Mary Fairchild (n.d.) give the best summation possible to those who want to “bah humbug” us away from Christmas. “I find myself wanting to ask, how can we fail to remember this day with great joy and reverence? How can we not celebrate Christmas?” (Why Do We Celebrate Christ's Birthday? section, para. 3). All I can add to her words is a hearty amen!

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Thursday, November 13, 2014

If you'll try a little kindness

4 “Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” 6 They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust. 9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”  (John 8, New Living Translation)

Why are folks so quick to condemn and judge? It seems that there is a mentality that if someone wrongs us, we must immediately think the worst about them; we must treat them like a heathen outcast! How dare they do that to us! Perhaps we even talk to someone about them because "hey, they need prayer, ya know!" Oh, no, we're not "gossiping" at all, we're simply "sharing what happened to us!"

Have you prayed about it as much as you've talked about it? I love that saying. If we prayed about it, we might find God telling us to read Romans 12:20:

Instead, "If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads." (New Living Translation)

We as humans tend to act before we think. We get all out of joint over some perceived offense and think that we have a right to be mad at someone. Did you ever stop and think that person might not have meant to offend you? Now I'm not talking about some egregious thing that was certainly intentional, but I'm thinking of instances that maybe they forgot something that was important to you or forgot to call/text you. Is that really worth getting mad about?

Are you perfect? I'm sure not! I've promised things before and they've totally slipped my mind. It happens. I promised a friend my chili recipe for instance and I keep forgetting to write it down and bring it to her. What kind of person would I be if I got mad at someone for something unintentional when I'm not perfect? I think we can find instance of that in the Bible as well in Matthew 18:

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. 23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. 26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. 28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. 29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’ 30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. 32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. 35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”

Yikes! That right there is some serious business, friends! If we don't forgive, God's not going to forgive us! We need to forgive the inexcusable in others because God has forgiven the inexcusable in us. That doesn't mean that we need to put ourselves in a situation to be hurt again by any means, but it means we give it over to God and let Him handle the situation.

Like Glen Campbell said in the song I added, let's try a little kindness to people.  Let's try to hold people to the standard we would want to be held to. We simply don't know what is going on in people's lives and we should treat them accordingly, giving them the benefit of the doubt. When someone does do the inexcusable to us, let's forgive them and let God handle it. We don't have to put ourselves back in the way of harm and hurt again, but can forgive and show them the love of Christ.
 


Monday, November 10, 2014

There's nothing to fear!

So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is...fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes...

Wise words from Franklin Delano Roosevelt. As a child, I found that statement humorous, but as an adult, I totally can relate to the premise President Roosevelt was putting forth in his inaugural address. 

It seems everywhere I'm turning these last few days that I see the subject of fear. From Christian memes on Facebook to my Interpersonal Communication class this afternoon, fear is being addressed. How many people deal with a crippling, paralyzing fear that controls their lives, a paralyzing fear they never share with the world? It may be something as small as a fear of public speaking, but it can be something as devastating as having a fear of leaving your house. The more we focus on what we fear, the firmer a grip it's going to hold on us.

Fear will rob you of your destiny if you allow it. God brought the Israelites out of Egypt's bondage; He was ready to take them to the Promised Land, something promised to their ancestors many years before. We know the story how it was a land flowing with milk and honey. Twelve spies were sent out to spy the land, but ten of them brought back a fearful report, a report that said the land was full of giants. Gripe, gripe, complain! Gloom, despair and agony on me! Like Roy Clark, Grandpa Jones, Archie Campbell and Gordie Tapp doing their Hee Haw skit, these ten spies were full of negative talk. Somewhere along the line they forgot that when God promises, God delivers! That whole generation of Israelites was not allowed to enter the Promised Land save Joshua and Caleb.

Isaiah 41:10 tells us this: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. 

We can Google any number of Bible verses dealing with fear and anxiety. God doesn't want us to fear! Going back to a previous blog where I pointed out "new level, new devil," Satan is going to come at us with a full frontal assault when God is ready to move us to a new level. God was ready to move Israel into the land flowing with milk and honey, but Satan put fear in their hearts. They missed their destiny!

Will you miss you destiny, fellow Christian? Will you allow Satan to dance around with glee knowing he kept you from a blessing? Will you instead stand up for your blessing and enter your destiny that God has prepared for you? Forget "fake it until you make it," but instead "fake it until you BECOME it!" Step out in faith, cast your fear and anxiety upon God and let Him take care of your fears!

The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?  Psalms 118:6 (ESV)

Friday, November 7, 2014

Going up a level? Get ready for a new devil!

I'm not always a big fan of Joyce Meyer (though I believe she's sincere), but I've heard the words "new level, new devil" from her before. I kept having those words echo in my mind yesterday afternoon; today I felt led to write a blog on it. 

I'm a big fan of retro-gaming, still owning my Atari 2600 with 150+ game cartridges. I could probably pick most any game to show as an example, but I'll pick one of my all-time favorites, Pac-Man. I'm sure everyone is familiar with Pac-Man and how the little ghosts chase him around the maze while he eats dots. After Pac-Man has cleared out all the dots and power pellets, he moves on to a new level as do the ghosts. After so long, though, the ghosts become more aggressive and faster. No longer does Pac-Man have it so easy!

I believe we can find a spiritual component in Pac-Man. You see, our lives are the same exact way. When God gets ready to move us up to another level, Satan is not going to stand idly by while we get our blessing. No! He's going for full frontal assault! Whether that blessing be finances, relationships, physical or emotional well-being or a spiritual blessing, Satan is going to fight. 

The Bible tells us that the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. His handiwork is evident throughout the ages. Even Christ Himself had to fight Satan in the wilderness before the Father moved Him up to a new level. Though certainly never fun, it is in the heat of these battles that we learn to trust God. 

We must keep ourselves on guard against the schemes of the enemy. He's not going to come at you in a red suit with a pitchfork, but instead he aims the fiery darts at our mind in a myriad of ways including doubt and temptation. 

I think many of us are probably worry-warts. What if "this" and what if "that?" We worry over things that will likely never occur. As a humorous aside, I'm reminded of an episode of The Beverly Hillbillies where Granny is intent on getting Miss Jane married. Jed wouldn't go for it, so she went to Jethro. Jethro, always thinking he was an "international playboy," was worried that "she might say yes" and he'd be stuck with her. Granny replied to him that "the moon might come down and kiss you on the forehead, but it ain't likely!" I think that aptly describes most of what we worry about!

He many times will pull on the heart strings as a friend put it to me. He's not going to go after you with something you don't care about. Look at Job and how he lost his kids. If there's a particular blessing you're holding out for, he will many times attack us in that area.

It's time we stand up for ourselves as Christians and know who we are in Christ. It's time to remind ourselves of Whose we are and that He said He came to give us life and give it more abundantly!

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Not another Christmas blog!

Yeah, yeah, I've already written a Christmas blog last year. As part of my Rhetorical and Critical Thinking class, I'm required to do a paper of my topic choice and present a pro/con argument. Naturally I chose Christmas. Here's my "pro" argument (a bit different than my last blog):



We probably do not think much about there being a controversy surrounding Christmas. There are splinter groups who believe that Christmas is everything from over-commercialized to a pagan holiday that will send you straight to the bowels of Hell. This turns into a fairly heady topic on religious forums around this time of the year; sometimes before! So what are we to make of this holiday called Christmas? Is it okay to celebrate it? It is my personal opinion there is not one iota of an issue with Christmas for a multitude of reasons. On Christmas day, families get together that often have not laid eyes on one another in a long time, churches are visited by people who perhaps have not been to church in a while, the name of Christ is most certainly exalted in Christmas hymns, people are more relaxed, and it is just good plain fun!

            Some of my earliest memories are Christmas get-togethers with family, family that is now in large part gone on. It was not about seeing Christmas decorations, nor talking about Santa Claus; it was seeing family that you had not seen in a long time. My dad is from a large family, family that eventually spread out all the way from Illinois to Memphis. Some families obviously have spread out even further than that due to careers or other personal choies. That makes for a high improbability of seeing one another too much during the year. Christmas is a time that many employers, if not most, allow their employees to have a day off, giving them time to travel and see one another. It would be close to a statistical impossibility for everyone to meet on some random date such as June 22; the hassle of everyone trying to get off would be a nightmare! With few exceptions, most people are off work, allowing them to plan a get-together on that day. Does not the Bible talk about family being of the utmost importance? What can be so wrong about a time that everyone can get together and fellowship?

            In our rushed society, how many people make time for church anymore? Although I am one of the types that “if the door is open I will be there,” I realize that many are not. I am certainly not about to criticize someone for not attending; that is between God and them. It could be that their work schedule is so crazy that they are rarely off when the church doors are open; perhaps they are so frazzled after putting in a 40, 50 or 60 hour work week that they need time to recuperate. Even the Bible tells us that God rested after the work of creation. Going back to what I pointed out on family get-togethers, Christmas might perchance be the only time they can darken the church doors. Since it is likely a given that they will hear the message of how Christ came to die in our stead, giving us eternal life if we choose it, what better time for that person to come to church? Even if the situation is such that the person could come to church during the year, but chose not to, what better time to choose to do so? Brother Andrews, my pastor, once asked someone why they only came on Easter and Christmas. The response he got, though sad, was a bit humorous. The man told Brother Andrews that he was in fact in God’s army, but in the Secret Service portion! If that “Secret Service” person only comes on Christmas day, but still hears the message, giving their heart to Christ, I want to know where someone finds fault with Christmas. Shouldn’t you be proud that there was a special day set aside that he could hear the message of the Gospel? As a Christian, it is about winning souls for the Kingdom of God, not splitting hairs about what day they came! 

            I consider myself a connoisseur of Christmas music, having LP upon LP, CD upon CD, cassette upon cassette, 8-track upon 8-track and so forth. To say I love Christmas music would be like saying the Pope is Catholic! I bring this up to show that if anyone should know the message of Christmas music, I should. From Jim Nabors singing “Go Tell It on the Mountain” to Elvis Presley crooning “Silent Night,” the message of Christ is brought forth in song every Christmas season. Just like the person who hears the gospel message only once or twice a year, they are hearing the name of Christ exalted in the music, music that is played in stores, on television and on the radio. The central message of the Gospel is evident in many Christmas songs leading me to beg the question to the Christmas naysayers, what is so wrong about a time of the year that the story of Christ is brought out for public viewing in song?

            Christmas is a relaxing day of the year if you allow it to be. Many people will choose to stay home, watching parades and football. Others will choose family time to go look at Christmas lights or simply just visit with one another. No matter the chosen mode of relaxation, Christmas can be a tranquil day of the year if you allow it to be. We all need time to recharge our batteries, and this makes for a picture-perfect time to do so.

            Last but not least, Christmas is just a fun time of the year! There are Scrooge-types out there who simply will not entertain the idea of “fun,” but the Bible tells us that there are times for celebration and merry making. Caroling down the street with neighbors; singing along with the family while someone strums the guitar; putting decorations on the tree and hanging lights. There are so many Christmas activities that give you the “warm fuzzies,” that you merely do not get any other time of the year. 

            If and when Scrooge decides to give me a “bah humbug,” I’m going to give him a big “Merry Christmas!” Christmas is something special, a day unlike others that you won’t find any other time of the year. God is not sitting on His throne in Heaven waiting to strike me down for putting up a Christmas tree, nor is He turning up the furnace in Hell extra hot because I already have my fireplace hearth and mantle festooned with my numerous Christmas houses and figurines. Christmas is a time for families to be together, a time for the name of Christ to be exalted in churches and Christmas hymns, and a time for people to have fun and relax. Perhaps I am like country singer Bill Anderson, being born with too much of the spirit of Christmas in me, but I must agree with how Andy Williams put it-it’s the most wonderful time of the year!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Be patient and trust the process

I do not think I have blogged on this thought before. If I have, you are just getting a double dose!

At my last job, I was in charge of accounts for a rent to own company. My job was to call people and remind them that their payment was due. If that did not work, I was supposed to send out "friendly reminder," "7 day notice," and "termination" letters depending upon how late the customer was. In the meantime, I was also supposed to try to continue making telephone contact as well as going to their home if the other methods were not getting a response. If none of that worked, I had to mail out a certified letter to their home telling them that the company I worked for would consider prosecution if the situation was not remedied.

I am not the most patient person in the world, at least I used to not be. I would start to get frustrated with certain clients who never could seem to pay on time, nor could they be bothered (it seemed) to communicate with me what was going on. When I would begin to get flustered, my boss would remind me to "be patient, Ronnie, trust the process!" He always had a laugh when he said it, but the added touch of calling me "Ronnie" made it a bit more hilarious, relieving my stressful mood.

I see a spiritual component to this, although it wasn't intended as such obviously.

How often do we become frustrated with God? We pray, we pray, we pray. We pray some more! We might perhaps even try to bargain with God. We even perhaps beg Him to change things! We may tell Him we just "can't take it anymore!" I wonder if God looks down on us and says to us what my boss used to say to me? "Be patient, son/daughter, and trust the process!" Maybe He even has that slight giggle like my boss did when saying it?

Paul tells us in Philippians 1:6 that "being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will complete it..." We can have confidence! God is going to do what He said He would do! Of course, Satan will attempt to fight us every step of the way, telling us that God has forgotten about us, or tell us that God has us on a back burner while He is "busy" doing things for other people.

God is working on that "good work" in my life right now. I used to get stressed out with what was going on in my life just as I would stress out over the work situation. I thought I needed to see the big picture. I was like the little kid (aren't we all sometimes?) who would quiz his parents every few miles asking "are we there yet?" "How much longer, God?" Then when things didn't work out as I planned (notice "AS I PLANNED!!!"), I would become frustrated, letting doubt, fear and defeat creep in. In effect, I was calling God a liar! Mind you, no, I didn't mean to call Him a liar, but I was.

Slowly but surely God is showing me I don't have to see the big picture. Like the old song tell us, "one day at a time, sweet Jesus, that's all I'm asking of You...." Take things one day at a time. Sometimes miracles do happen overnight, but many times God has to prepare us for that miracle. God has to take us through a refinement and learning process before He can release that miracle to us. If He simply gave us what we want when we wanted it, we would wind up in more misery than we could imagine. We are sometimes like the teenager who assumes they know everything, can handle everything, and like the J.G. Wentworth commercials, "it's my [blessing] and I want it now!"

In closing, I would tell you to be patient and trust God's process. He may take us along some roads and paths that do not seem to make sense to our human mind. Look at any number of Biblical faith heroes. Joseph was sold into slavery, winding up in prison before he ascended to second-in-command of Egypt. David was anointed king of Israel, but fled for his life before ascending to the kingship. Even Jesus Himself had to go through the wilderness temptations! Be patient and trust God's process.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Reposting for a friend whose writings I love: Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow

Living Simply Sassy Classy: Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow: Today, I parted with a dear friend and companion of mine. We had been together 10 long years. 2 of those years were hidden in a storage unit...